The first day of school is a milestone that marks the beginning of an exciting journey, not just for your child, but for you as a parent as well. It’s a day filled with pride, joy, and, let’s be honest, a few butterflies. As a parent of four, I’ve been through this process more than a few times, and I’d like to share a few suggestions to help you, and your child navigate this new chapter smoothly.

Start with Routine

Children thrive on routine, especially during times of change. Establishing a consistent schedule: bedtimes, morning rituals, and regular mealtimes, can work wonders in helping your child adapt to the new school rhythm.

Encourage Independence

One of the best ways to prepare your child for school is by encouraging small acts of independence. Tasks like dressing themselves, packing their backpack, or putting on their shoes can build their confidence and give them a sense of ownership over their school experience. This not only builds confidence but also prepares them for the expectations of a classroom environment.

Talk About What’s Ahead

With just a few days to go, have open dialogue with your child about what school will be like. Describe the new friends they’ll make, the exciting things they’ll learn, and the fun they’ll have along the way. Address any fears or concerns they may have but try to stay positive. Your calm and reassuring voice will set the emotional tone for the experience.

Be Patient and Flexible: Every Child Adjusts in Their Own Way

The first few weeks of school might bring some challenges, whether it’s a few tears, some reluctance to go, or just a bit of tiredness. This is completely normal. Try to make the morning drop-off as quick and painless as possible, by handing over your child to their teacher even if they are upset. They will settle quickly once you’re gone!

Starting school is more than just a day on the calendar, it’s the beginning of an adventure full of learning, growth, and discovery. If you need some encouraging words for your child as they put on their school shoes for the first time, Dr Seuss can help: “You’re off to great places, today is your day! Your mountain is waiting, so get on your way!”

Here’s to a wonderful start to the school year and all the adventures it will bring.

Philippa Lang is Head of the Prep School